The holiday season has a way of sweeping us up in its whirlwind—shopping lists, crowded stores, endless notifications, and the pressure to do it all. But sometimes the most meaningful moments come when we step away from the rush and give ourselves permission to slow down. A quiet evening, a warm blanket, and a game…

Thanksgiving can stir up a lot of feelings. For some, it’s a time of warmth and connection. For others, it’s a season of grief, tension, or loneliness. Whether you’re navigating complicated family dynamics, missing someone deeply, or simply spending the holiday solo, it’s okay if this time of year feels challenging. In Bosselady’s Butterfly Garden,…

These are some of the mods and settings I use to build emotionally safe, inclusive, and story-driven gameplay. Many are part of my own custom series, designed to reduce stress, reflect real-life diversity, and give players more control over their Sims’ lives. I may be considered a “small” mod creator, but I’ve been modding The…

Safe spaces in games matter.

January has brought me a new kind of challenge. On January 15th, I had surgery for cancer, and right now my focus is on slowing down, healing, and giving myself the space to recover. Recovery isn’t just about rest — though rest is essential — it’s also about finding small ways to stay active, eat…